solving disputes between people

A normal relationship will from time to time go through fire. This are the times when with a reason or without a reason you will have conflicts between each other. This do not mean that you break up even though at that point nothing else matters.
To solve a conflict or disagreement takes a sober person who will be the strong one and choose to do the right thing. Instead of being the tough one and reacting back on the allegations, choose to be the calm one that will find a way to solve the issue. When your partner is up there and furious, take the low gear and soon you will see him/her join you down here an the problem is solved.
You don't have to be the champion, sometimes being a fool and taking the blame saves your relationship. Be wise and you will be happy in your relationship.